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Explode Lube

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The Secret Society Wellness Products are something that I have not done a great job of sharing with you. These are products that I formulated with specialists to create natural soothing solutions to people living with herpes outbreaks. We launched the first product in 2019 and now we have 11 different wellness products. 

So today I want to talk about the only lube that has been formulated to support people living with herpes. As we all know friction can cause outbreaks. The last thing we want…

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Dealing with Herpes Anxiety: 3 Tips

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This is a question I get almost daily. I either get DM’s, or it’s posted in our Secret Society Support Group, or you guys comment on my posts. The aftermath of being diagnosed with herpes is real. 

Firstly let’s talk about anxiety. What is it?

Experiencing anxiety here and there is 100% normal. We have times that we are freaking out. For example;, we can have anxiety of taking a final exam because if we don’t get a certain grade the we won't pass and then we won't graduate because we have to…

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Living with Herpes and Still Living Your Best Life

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Having herpes is actually a blessing. 

Here me out on this one. I know you’re not believing me if you were just diagnosed with herpes. And I didn’t see it that way at all back in 2011. I’ve talked to thousands of people who have been diagnosed with herpes and it always starts out the same way. It starts out as, my life is over and how do I cure this. I’ve talked to people who are suicidal, (here’s the hotline if this is where you’re at 800-273-8255). Basically I’ve seen all levels of devastat…

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Everyday Wellness Oil

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We’re continuing on as we learn more about the Secret Society Wellness products. I’ve been posting and talking about our wellness products and so many of you DM’d or commented and said that you had never tried them or have never heard of them. So clearly I was not doing my job and was not sharing the best thing in the herpes world since sliced bread. 

So let me tell you how the Secret Society Wellness products got started. There are 2 out of 3 people living with HSV1, now not all of it is oral …

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Recovery Soak

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This is by far one of the best things you can do for yourself ever…not to mention especially when you  have a herpes outbreak.

You might have watched the last few videos or read a few of the blog posts as I’ve talked about the Secret Society Wellness products that were created specifically for people living with herpes outbreaks. But in case you haven’t heard of the Secret Society Wellness, let me tell you. The first product we came out with was the SPF Lifesaver Lip Balm. I can remember launch…

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My Favorite Supplements for a Herpes Diagnosis

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Okay so now you’re diagnosed with Herpes and you want to do everything possible to prevent the next outbreak or if you get one speed up the recovery time and lessen the severity of it, right?

That was exactly me as well. 

I’ve noticed that when people are first diagnosed with herpes they do 1 of 3 things. They go into fight mode, flight mode or freeze mode. We do all sorts of things with these modes; we loose it with our partner, we become angry people to be around, we just curl up in a ball a…

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Rescue Balm

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When I ask you guys on social media if you know about the Secret Society Wellness products most of you say, no. Then if I ask you what do you know about a specific product or how do you like to use it I also get cricket. Many of you have dm’d me or left a comment asking to tell me more or how do I use this. 

So here we are talking about the Secret Society Wellness and the Rescue Balm.

First, let me start out by saying that I started the Secret Society Wellness products in 2019. I was actually …

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4 Ways Tea Tree Oil Is Beneficial for Herpes

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Tea Tree Oil Has May Powerful Benefits to treat Herpes Outbreaks


Essential Oils have been used for many many years and over the last 10 years have become mainstream. It’s common to walk into a store and they will have an essential oil diffuser going to either clean the air, create a mood or just because it smells good. I know I use essential oils to help my son sleep and to help set the mood for him. Also, lots of products now are infused with essential oils to either make them smell good or …

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3 Reasons Why CBD Helps Your Herpes Outbreaks

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CBD Has Many Healing Benefits


CBD is all the new rage and thank goodness!!! I can remember back in the early 2000’s when hemp was making a debut and it was sneaking its way out to the world. About 20 years later we now have CBD!!!


I have to be honest, at first I was a little sceptical about CBD.  I personally don’t smoke pot or use any products with THC in them so I was a little hesitant about using something that was associated with the marijuana plant. But here’s the deal...CBD or canna…

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Herpes Medications That Clear up Your Outbreak

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Different Types of Antivirals for Your Herpes Outbreak

You get the call from your doctor saying you have herpes and they’ll fill your prescription. 

Eek… right?

Here’s the deal. Take the antiviral. Chances are you’re in pain and feel horrible and all you want is for your outbreak to go away. Getting that antiviral in your system ASAP is the best thing you can do. In fact, the soon you get it  in your system on the onset of an outbreak, the sooner your outbreak will clear up. I’ve heard of peo…

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