090: Sex with someone who has herpes with Alexandra Harbushka
Life With Herpes
Welcome to today’s show on life with herpes. As always, I am thrilled to be here with you and spending the time with you.
So, here’s the deal. Yes, you can have sex with someone who has herpes. Or if you have herpes then yes, you can have sex with someone who doesn’t have it. Let me break it down for you and tell you what herpes is and isn’t:
- A virus that you will have for life
- Contagious even if there is no outbreak present
- Causes blisters and discomfort
- There are two types; HSV1 and HSV2 and both types can go to either your mouth or to your genital region
Herpes Is Not:
- Something that will get in the way of your day to day life
- The end of your sex life
- Going to ruin your life (promise)
Just do it. Put it out there. Tell them you have herpes before sleeping together. The last thing you want to happen is have it come back and bite you in the ass.
Once this is all out on the table then talk to your partner about the appropriate methods to protect each other. I have an episode all about ways to prevent passing herpes to your partner on episodes 84 and 82.
The long story short is herpes doesn’t ruin your life or your sex life. Because you now need to communicate and add the trust factor in there it most likely will add to a deeper connection and even a better sex life. Just say’n.
Here’s How I Can HelpJoin our monthly live Herpes Support Group - www.lifewithherpes.com/supportgroup
Herpes Outbreak Toolkit - //herpes-outbreak-toolkit
Emergency Call - //emergencycall/
Keep in touch with Alexandra Harbushkawww.lifewithherpes.com
Join The Live With Herpes CommunityIf you are ready to join a community of people who are living with herpes also then you will want to join our slack group. It is FREE and it is a great way to find the support and comfort that you are looking for. Head on over to www.lifewithherpes.com and join our community. You will receive a slack invitation as soon as you sign up. See you in there.
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