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Get step-by-step guidance to tell your partner you have herpes. It can feel scary but it doesn't have too. Your future self will thank you and your present self is begging for the toolkit.

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Tell Your Partner You Have Herpes


Everything You Need To Know To Tell Them In One 15-Minute Conversation



Don't let fear hold you back from disclosing your secret.

Everyone who's diagnosed with herpes has felt at least one of these at one time in their life:

  • You feel like a leper
  • No one will want to date you
  • You're afraid to get rejected
  • You want to live a life with a partner that you love
  • Nobody will have sex with you
  • Nobody else has Herpes but you
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This toolkit will point you in right direction, give you confidence to disclose to your partner, and give you step by step hand-holding on how to do it. 

If you're anything like are scared to go out and date and tell that person you really like that you have herpes. 

I know I sure was and it took me two years to get out of a relationship that I knew wasn't right for me and gain the confidence to be able to get out there and date and begin to tell people that I have herpes. 

It was terrifying! Not worse...I was scared shitless. And the worst part, I felt alone and had no clue how to bring my herpes diagnosis up!

However, somewhere deep down in me I believed that I was worth more and just because I had herpes I deserved to date, have sex and have the relationship of my dreams. It took me 2 years to realize that I didn't need to settle and that I had to get uncomfortable in order to be happy. 

I don't want you to take 2 years to get the confidence to date. 

I don't want you to go on dates and then run for the hills when it's time to have the "talk".

I don't want you to just give up and either settle or worse never date again.

I only wish someone had invested the time to put this Toolkit together back in 2011.

I'm grateful to be able to get this information to you; helping to put your mind at ease and show you living and dating with herpes is possible.

Alexandra Harbushka, creator of

Inside This Tell Your Partner Toolkit You'll Receive:

  • Easy steps to telling your partner in 15 minutes or less
  • 14 videos to walk you through the details on why to tell your partner, when to tell your partner and how to tell your partner. 
  • Scripts to download so you can know word for word what to say
  • Herpes 101 information and statistics to keep in  your back pocket for when your partner asks you questions


Sneak Peak at the Tell Your Partner Toolkit Videos

How To Use This Toolkit

We'll go over what to expect and how to use this Tell Your Partner Toolkit

Types of Relationships

There are 3 types of relationships that we cover: hookups, wanting long term, and already in a long term. We'll go over how your conversation will differ based on your situation.

Reduce Pain

We talk about reducing the risk of transmission, why it's important to get tested as well as reducing the pain of rejection.   

Outbreak Prevention

We talk about ways to reduce the physical pain as well as the emotional pain when it comes to disclosing and not disclosing. 

Better Relationship

Telling your partner creates increased trust, increased sex life and allows you to set boundaries. 

3 Things That Hold Us Back

When we hold ourselves back we risk the chance of not disclosing as well as not dating. You'll want to know what holds us back. 

Herpes 101

This is everything you need to know about herpes so that you can be an encyclopedia and know what to say when your partner asks you questions.

4 Things That Happen If You Don't Disclose

When you don't disclose to your partner you increase guilt, shame, and create lack of trust. 

How To Tell Your Partner

This video is will walk you through step-by-step on how to disclose. You'll want to print the downloadable script and take notes. 

How Not to Tell Your Partner

There are 4 ways that you shouldn't tell your partner about your herpes diagnosis. 

Outcomes To Prepare For

Your partner will respond in 1 of 4 ways. You'll want to know what they are so you can be ready. 

When To Tell Your Partner

This is the most asked question and the answer depends on what you want out of the relationship. 

How To Handle Rejection

Rejection is inevitable it's just a matter of being prepared for it and learning how move forward. 

Go Tell Your Partner

Now you know everything you need to know on how to tell your partner that you have herpes. 


"I was holding back from dating because I was so scared to tell anyone that I have herpes. I needed to know that I was deserving of love and it's okay to put myself out there even with my herpes diagnosis. "


"I'd been rejected the last 3 times I disclosed and needed to know what I doing wrong. Asking Alexandra helped me know when to disclose and how to do it. "



How to Start Disclosing ASAP?

Step 1

Get your Tell Your Partner Toolkit

Step 2

Watch the videos & download the worksheets

Step 3

Practice on your dog or in the mirror

Step 4

Make plans with your crush and go do it!

Alexandra Harbushka Lifestyle, LLC.

“I'm embarrassed to say that I've been dating someone for 5 months and never told him I have herpes. I know I needed to disclose and this toolkit helped me have the conversation.”

Alexandra Harbushka Lifestyle, LLC.

“I didn't realize that disclosing can actually help my partner and I prevent transmission. ”

Easy steps to follow.

You don't have to feel so alone. 

Tell your partner in 15 minuets or less.

Know what to say, when to say it and how to say it.

Your secret doesn't have to hold you back from dating.