LWH Secret Society Retreat 2020

August 21-23

Las Vegas, NV

meet your favorite community members & leave inspired! 




Expert Speakers
Really Good Food
Poolside Hangouts

You Are Not Alone.

Everyone at this retreat will have felt at least one of these at one time in their life:

  • You feel like a leper
  • No one is dating you
  • You get rejected every time you tell someone
  • You want to live a life that you love
  • Nobody will have sex with you
  • Nobody else has Herpes but you

Join Us for a Weekend!

 Come visit Sin City and celebrate your Secret Society friendships! You'll get an experience you'll never forget and a community you won't ever have to leave behind!


Bill Gaylord

Alexandra's husband opens up about what it's like being married to someone with herpes (and who also talks about it a lot!)


Dr. John Martin, MD

find the answers for your most intimate physical questions and advice directly from a trained professional.


Dr. Sami Longo-Disse

former sex worker, now psychotherapist will speak on the emotional, physical, and social implications of living with herpes.


Dr. Brandy McGill

discover a holistic and natural perspective to coping with, preventing, and healing herpes outbreaks.

Dance Instructor


Reclaim your sexy & take home the sexiest dance moves in Sin City! Your (future) partner(s) won't know what hit them!

JW Marriot Las Vegas

All retreat events are hosted at the JW Marriott Las Vegas.  

After registering for your seat at the retreat, you'll get detailed instructions in your email inbox to receive our discount on your hotel room.

Note: Your Retreat Registration does not include your hotel room. You will need to book this separately.

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The Property
Our resort features immaculately-redesigned rooms and stunning views of the mountains and a lush golf course.
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The Pool
Our Las Vegas resort pool is perfect for couples and families alike, with comfortable lounge chairs and water features.
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The Room
Unwind after an exciting day exploring Las Vegas in one of our king guest rooms, complete with chic furnishings.


"With this group I feel safe."

LWH Secret Society member

"Thanks so much for creating this environment and allowing us to be open with each other without judgment."

"I seriously appreciate you."

LWH Secret Society member


How to Join Us

Step 1

Pay for your registration to receive an email with recommendations for hotel and travel arrangements.

Step 2

Alexandra Harbushka and her team will roll out the red carpet for your arrival! Friday dinner and Saturday lunch are included in your registration.

Step 3

Return home feeling confident, sexy, and with way better friends than you ever thought possible.

Registration Options

Pick the price option that best fits your needs:

*only 25 spots avialable

1 Payment


upon registration
Hurry! Only 10 Tickets Available!

Early Bird


Receive a 32% Discount!

3 Payments


scheduled payments through Oct 18th
Life With Herpes

“Just joined the Secret Society. Thank you to all of you for sharing your stories, advice, and confidence.”


Life With Herpes

“Thank you for being so positive when it’s so easy to feel negative with all this.”


You don't have to feel so alone.